The Dynamic Way
Allow You Totally
“Authenticity is not something we have or don’t have.
It’s a practice — a conscious choice of how we want to live.
Authenticity is actually a collection of choices,
choices that we make every day.
It’s the choice to show up and be real.
The choice to be honest.
The choice to let our true selves be seen.”
~Brené Brown
What if you didn't have to operate from the "wrongness" of you or the "rightness" of who you're trying to be? What if you didn't have to "try" to be you, but could have ease within yourself and also with what you are creating in the world?
We are often subconsciously (or even consciously) operating in either resistance or reaction to the story that we are "wrong" in some way. It's not that there is actually anything wrong with you. However, the world has sent so many messages your way through television, movies, magazines, books, school, your family, your friends and enemies, your employers, and so many other people and things that "you are wrong", "you're bad", "you're not good enough", "not smart enough", "not successful enough", and so on and so on. Most of which is designed to sell you a product, and all of which is designed to keep you small.
But why? Well, if you stay small then you will fit nicely into the boxes that were created to benefit someone else. You'll buy the product, you'll fulfill the family obligation, you'll do everything you possibly can to get into that one school that you must get into. The list goes on. Just take a quick survey of your life. How much of it is actually set up to truly support you, your greatness, and your unique and powerful contribution to the planet?
Are you tired of buying the lie and ready for something new... something powerful.. something that's actually you?
It's time to allow you totally. This means to be in full allowance of yourself and operate beyond your judgments and limitations of who you are or who you could never be. How much more powerful, amazing, and brilliant are you that you just haven't allowed yourself to be?
Want to find out?
Commit to You
You can desire change all day, but until you commit to your own self, that change is not going to come.
Good news! It doesn't have to be a big, dramatic declaration of your undying commitment to yourself. It's just a choice.
"Yes, I choose me and I commit to me above everything (and everyone) else."
This doesn't mean that you will all of a sudden become self centered. Committing to you is one of the most loving and beneficial acts you can do for someone else. Yes, really! Until you commit to you, you will always be looking for someone or something else do to for you what only you can.
This does mean, however, that no matter what you are committed to what is true for you and honoring that in your life. This is where the rubber meets the road. Where you commit to following your truth even if your family and friends don't understand, even if a different career or life path is actually what your truth is calling for, even if it requires a big or small step that you have been too afraid to acknowledge or take. Because on the other side of it, is that life you actually came here to live.
Your truth is calling.
Are you ready?
Create Your Life
Now we get to have some real fun! When you are actually allowing yourself totally (not hiding any parts of yourself from yourself) and committed to you - then you get to step into the adventure that is living.
How much of your life have you created for someone else or to fulfill an expectation, role, obligation, societal script, or anything else that wasn't truly you? And what would it be like to create all of life on your terms?
And, yes, I said "all of life," not just some of life. Most of us can eek out some parts of life that are more true to us and aligned with who we actually are and be. But how much is it really? What else would be possible if you didn't have to give up any of you to create a life that deeply honored you and contributed to the planet?
It is possible. And it's waiting for you.
What will you choose?